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Sunday, May 20, 2012

Moms Talk

Have you Ever Been ‘Caught With Your Pants Down?’

More importantly, when you were caught in that compromising position by one of your offspring, what did you do?

Moms Talk is a weekly feature on all Lehigh Valley Patches in which local parents, caregivers and other members of the community are invited to share opinions and advice on parenting topics. This week’s Moms Talk question relates to being caught in an embarrassing “situation” by one of your kids. If you live with children, at one time or another you are going to get caught in a compromising position. Were you stepping out of the shower and reaching for your towel? Answering the call of nature? Or responding to the call of the wild? In this week’s Moms Talk, we want to know how you handled the unbelievably embarrassing moment when your child (or children) caught you (and maybe your spouse?) with your pants down. Try to keep your answers G-…

Jennifer Elston

8:46 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

We usually don't close the bathroom door unless there are guests here. I remember a time when my husband was standing at the toilet and my daughter tried to "play in the fountain.". Ha   more ›

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Hello College Debt, Goodbye Risk

A New York Times story on graduates weighed down with college debt makes the case for last week’s column.

Once again, The New York Times is playing catch-up with Patch.com. On Sunday, The Times had a front-page story about the growing burdens of college loans, three days after my column ran on the same subject. The paper did a wee bit more legwork for their gazillion-word story – my research consisted mainly of talking to a friend at the deli counter at the Giant supermarket – so I’ll leave the term “copycat” out of this discussion. The lead of The Times story was about a young Ohio college graduate who owes $120,000 in loans and is working two jobs to pay the $900-a-month bill. Her mother is taking out life insurance on her because if anything happens to her daughter, she couldn’t pay the loans for which she co-signed.  A decade ago, 58 …

John

8:07 am on Sunday, May 20, 2012

The issue here is about 2 things; Greed on the part of colleges, and fiscal incompetence on the parent/student. Colleges are no better than the real estate brokers 5 years ago, enticing people into buying a product they can I'll afford. Not even as bad as a car salesman selling ou a car you cannot afford, or a real estate agent selling you a home you cannot afford. The only thing they do is lock …   more ›

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Breastfeeding Cover Photo: What Do You Think?

May 21 issue of Time magazine shows picture of Mom breastfeeding young boy standing on a chair.

 Moms Talk is a weekly feature on all Lehigh Valley Patches in which local parents, caregivers and other members of the community are invited to share opinions and advice on parenting topics. This week’s Moms Talk question relates to a Time magazine cover photo of a breastfeeding mom used to illustrate an article about “attachment” parenting. The May 21 issue of time magazine features a cover photo of a mom breastfeeding her three-year-old son, who is standing on chair to reach her breast. The photograph is being used to illustrate an article about a concept in childrearing known as “attachment” parenting. The cover headline asks the question “Are You Mom Enough?” The article delves into the history of attachment parenting and some of its …

Dana

12:36 pm on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Read my comment-- "I FEEL etc..." It's just my opinion. Geez, talk about having your cheerio's pooped in... I don't give a rats hiney about statisitics... I make my own decisions and find my own conclusions. And besides, this article wasn't about 'how long is it appropriate to breast feed', it is about a magazine cover. Take a chill pill and smile on this rainy, cloudy day Rachel :) and Tamarya, …   more ›

Tell Us: Do You Support Gay Marriage?

Patch asks Lehigh Valley readers whether they support gay marriage

President Barack Obama has publicly come out in support of gay marriage, the first time in history that a sitting U.S. president has ever done so.  Obama made the announcement via an interview with ABC News' Robin Roberts  on “Good Morning America" last Thursday. Locally, the Greater Lehigh Valley Chamber of Commerce established a new council for gay and lesbian businesspeople in January. Bethlehem's Adrian Shanker, president of Equality Pennsylvania, told the Morning Call last week that Obama has not gone far enough to promote gay rights and that his organization will continue to push Democrats such as Sen. Bob Casey to support gay marriage. Equality Pennsylvania has started an online petition to Casey. The Call's report includes comments…

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WILFREDO G. SALCEDO, Sr.

3:09 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Addendum: The Republican lawmaker who led the effort to reject a gay judge for the district court (same guy who said homosexuality is a disordered behavior) now says that sodomy is not a civil right...That's not what we are arguing about...What's sodomy got to do with judicial ruling?..This gentleman must think judges are as dumb as he is...Calling people with lifestyles different from yourself …   more ›

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Life in the Slow Lane

Is There a War Against Youth?

Journalist Stephen Marche claims there is a war against youth and that the massive college student debt problem is part of it.

The specter of how to put two kids through college looms large in my life; I pick at it as one would a scab – and with similar results. Recently, a mother of three told me her daughter, an Emmaus High School grad who went on to a four-year school, has $60,000 in college loans – and she emerged with the least amount of debt among her friends.  Strangely, that kind of burden on the middle class doesn’t bother syndicated columnist Cal Thomas. In an op-ed piece in The Morning Call last week he wrote this: “I feel about those with crushing tuition debt the way I feel about people who choose to live along the frequently flooded banks of the Mississippi River. If students and their parents choose expensive schools, they should accept the …

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Rosemary B

11:15 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012

I think we are at the point now, 3 yrs into his presidency, that Barack Obama needs to be held responsible for his share of the national debt problem. http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-57400369-503544/national-debt-has-increased-more-under-obama-than-under-bush/   more ›

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Your Turn

Your Turn: Drinking at Lafayette

Easton police made dozens of arrests on the same weekend a student died. Does the school need to do more?

Easton police arrested 32 people at a large drinking party near Lafayete College's campus over the weekend. Police Chief Carl Scalzo told the Express-Times that the number seemed higher than usual for the weekend of the Lafayette's end-of-semester All-College Day. Of the arrests, 11 of them were for underage drinking. These arrests occurred on the same day that Lafayette freshman Everett Glenn died after being found unresponsive. Glenn's mother has said her son died as a result of drinking alcohol, although that hasn't been confirmed by authorities. "He did sound like he had been drinking," Joanne Glenn told a New York CBS affiliate, describing their last conversation. "We told him that we were concerned about that and he said to me, 'Mom…

Cecelia DelBacco Merchant

11:10 am on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Lafayette has a "Good Samaritan" policy. Why didn't Everett's friends call for help for him under that well published policy? They could have saved his life! Although I do not condone excessive drinking at any age, I am guessing that the level of importance of properly communicating procedures to the student community in this event is very low. Equate it with the problems encountered on the Costa…   more ›

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Right or Wrong: Suspended for Singing 'Sexy' Lyric

A Colorado first-grader was recently suspended for singing the popular LMFAO song "Sexy and I Know It."

Moms Talk is a weekly feature on all Lehigh Valley Patches in which local parents, caregivers and other members of the community are invited to share opinions and advice on parenting topics. This week’s Moms Talk question relates to singing a pop song with questionable lyrics in school. A first-grade boy in Colorado was suspended this week for singing the popular LMFAO song "I'm sexy and I know it," to a female classmate while standing in the lunch line. This is the second time the boy has been reprimanded for singing the song in school, according to published news reports. This time, the offense comes with a three-day suspension for sexual harassment. His mom says the punishment is unfair, stating "I could understand if he was fondling …

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Mom of DnNnD

3:41 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Actually this article and the original article in Colorado state that this was the second time he was reprimanded in school, but on this second time a girl was in front of him in the lunch line. The first time he did not sing it to a girl, let alone the same girl. Therefore, no harrassment has occured.   more ›

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Fire Company Banquet Humbles a Cynic

Fire Company awards dinner was an antidote to the loss of personal and community connections in a digital world.

On journalists’ lists of preferred stories to cover, awards dinners – with rambling speeches and inside jokes -- usually fall somewhere between sewer authority meetings and shopping center openings. So when I was assigned to cover the annual awards dinner for Goodwill Fire Co. No. 1 in Trexlertown Saturday evening, I arrived at the Willow Tree Grove banquet hall in Orefield with a let’s-get-this-thing-over-with attitude. Then something happened. As the night wore on, evidence of the extraordinary commitment these volunteers have made to their communities and the camaraderie and genuine admiration they have for each other melted my cold journalistic heart.  Listening to the speeches and jokes, it became clear that the loyalty and respect …

Don O'Leary

12:55 am on Friday, May 4, 2012

I run with a neighboring department and I can tell you that the number of actual working fires is down because of better response times & early detection. But when we do get a "worker", it is great to know that these guys have our backs! Also, today we train for all types of emergencies, such as accident calls, hazardous materials spills and an occasional EMS or police assist. It not just about …   more ›

Sunday, April 29, 2012

How Do You Tell Your Kids to Handle Bullies?

At some point, just about every child will come into contact with bullying. What have you told your child to do when that happens?

Moms Talk is a weekly feature on all Lehigh Valley Patches in which local parents, caregivers and other members of the community are invited to share opinions and advice on parenting topics. This week’s Moms Talk question relates to bullies and bullying. Sticks and stones may break their bones and sometimes names do hurt them. So whether it’s a push on the playground, a nasty name on the softball field or a cyber attack, at some time or another every child will come “face-to-face” with bullying of some sort. In this week’s Moms Talk, we want to hear what you tell your kid when the inevitable bully crosses his or her path: What do you tell your kids about dealing with bullies? Our Moms Council members include:  If you would like to become a…

JuliannaSmith

12:13 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Bullies should not be ignored. Your child needs to know that he or she does not need to be treated in this way and should not need to put up with it. Keep up the communication to make sure there problem with the bully does not come back. Your child should feel safe and secure at home. Be sure to provide a safe haven, letting your child know he or she has your love and support. I would like to …   more ›

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Life in the Slow Lane

Does Social Studies Matter?

Allentown School District may combine social studies with English to make more time for math. Is that a good idea?

  On a recent 13-minute drive home from baseball practice, my 15-year-old explained to me how World War I started. Mind you, I knew the bit about Austrian Archduke Franz Ferdinand being assassinated by a Bosnian Serb but I couldn’t have told you why other countries started joining in like it was a brawl at an NHL game.  For most of us, information has a use-it-or-lose-it quality. If we’re not called on in daily life to remember who was president during the Spanish-American War, it might slip our minds.  What stays are concepts. How America’s founders enshrined freedom of speech, religion and the press in the Bill of Rights of the Constitution to protect minorities from the tyranny of the majority. That America came to England’s aid to …

Jonathan Gerard

6:29 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

For those who still doubt the value of social studies, here is an article addressing just this question, to be published in the May 24 issue of The New Republic, by a professor of philosophy at Columbia University. I know that some readers believe that their opinions are as informed and have as much merit as those of an ivy league professor, but for those willing to talk less and listen more (and…   more ›

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